GRIZZLY PEAR

written snapshots

Excerpts from Tao Te Ching, Ursula K. Le Guin

I’ve always thought I’d read some Chinese philosophy, someday.

That day came on a sunny afternoon my mind was blown as I was parking my car behind E-Jo, a Korean bone broth restaurant. The History of China podcast was talking about a Han dynasty emperor who used Daoism as his ruling ideology.

That blew my mind. I always thought Daoists were crazy drunks in a forest, not competing with Confucians in the halls of power.

Don’t get me wrong, the Tao Te Ching is great stuff for skipping out into the woods. But there is plenty of “leadership advice”. Timely stuff before landing a gig as a Project Manager representing the State.

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True leaders
are hardly known to their followers.
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When the work’s done right,
with no fuss or boasting,
ordinary people say,
Oh, we did it.

excerpt from Tao Te Ching 17

My project teams have been complimentary of my leadership. Of course, I’m the source of their next project, so it’s hard to know how much of it is sincere. Then again, I guess such compliments are better than the alternative. On my end, I believe that I have the easiest job on the team. I move some paper around and they do all the real work.

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And so the wise soul
predominates without dominating,
and leads without misleading.
And people don’t get tired
of enjoying and praising
one who, not competing,
has in all the world
no competitor.

excerpt from Tao Te Ching 66

A hidden benefit of joining the State is that any promotion includes a significant increase in stress for a marginal pay raise. There is no financial incentive to rise up the hierarchy. As such, I have no competition in my office. If someone else wants the headache, let them have it.

John Minford’s commentary for this section includes this short poem by Li Bo for his friend the Taoist Hermit Yuan Danqiu.

I envy you, my friend,
Dwelling on East Mountain,
Lover of beauteous hills and valleys,
Asleep in the green season of spring
Among empty forests,
Rising long after daybreak,
The wind in the pines
Blowing through your sleeves,
The stony brook washing your soul.
I envy you,
Lying there unperturbed,
Pillowed high
On your emerald mist.

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How to make peace?
Wise souls keep their part of the contract
and don’t make demands on others.
People whose power is real fulfill their obligations;
people whose power is hollow insist on their claims.

excerpt from Tao Te Ching 79

In the heat of the moment, it’s easy to get annoyed at an underperforming contractor or consultant. Such tendencies get worse the longer I hold this comfortable position of power. I need to constantly remind myself that I don’t have to insist on my rights — I hold the fucking checkbook. Unfortunately, I’m sometimes forced to remind my partners of their obligations and my expectations of their performance, but there’s no excuse for losing my cool.

Whosoever lacks Inner Power will try to control Others by Force, will demand a due, exact a tithe, and Bitterness will ensue. The Tao of Softness and gentleness wards off Bitterness. Hardness and Strength, Vanity and Pride create Bitterness and Resentment

John Minford’s translation of Magister Liu’s commentary
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